So the band from the wedding agreed to learn YNWA for the first dance. At the end of the night, one of the guys gave me the following, which definitely is getting framed: (a) sheet music from back in the day when his wife appeared in Carousel, and (b) the written-out notes for (what is, I assume) the lead guitar. Have to say, it was pretty f'ing hard to keep it together. If anyone decides to use it and wants the handwritten, guitar version, let me know, and I'll email a scanned version (or if you just want to be able to play it yourself).
For AL folks, the band is The Hurlers. They are beyond reasonably priced if you ever need to hire someone to play for something, and everyone loved them.